I still remember love when I was angry! Ding Ning once had a big arguing that "think her husband would take action the next second", and saw her husband from being angry to being peaceful wh

When we talk about love, the two people love each other to be honest and tolerant; when we enter marriage, we have more daily running-in and eyebrows!

, who doesn’t quarrel? Although quarrels are another form of communication, have you ever quarreled and shouted "I'm going to divorce!" in your heart?

Life is like a play, and it is like life. Ding Ning, an actor who has talked about many roles, has unique insights on women's self-view and two sexes, and often shares his experiences with face fans.

Ding Ning wrote a new PO article a few days ago, because of your picking words, I will hit you! ? She thought, "Beyond anger is love."

Husband: I will never beat the woman Ding Ning and share it. I remember that after just less than a year of marriage, she and her husband had a very quarrel: "I then thought he should hit me next, right?! I thought about it in my heart, we have only been married for a year now. If you fight, I will end this marriage as soon as possible and don't waste time for each other."

She leaned forward and said to her husband with her eyes, "Do you want to hit me now?"

"Those few seconds seemed to have become slow movements, I know that Looking at my husband, he was so angry that he was so angry that he said, "I will never hit a woman."

"At that moment, I thought he loved me!"

"Zero tolerance for violence" activist Ding Ning said, "If you are angry, remember you are Love me, it means that your love for me is beyond your anger." This also made her feel that her husband is worth going on, "That's it, 13 years."

She emphasized zero tolerance for violence: "Don't say anything that makes you move, if you do it, you will move."

Double hand and words are used to protect the family's wisdom to leave messages: "A man's hand should go out to conquer the world, not be beaten by his wife inside...", "It is very basic not to hit a woman when he is angry, but not to speak evil is a manifestation of love and cultivation", "House and wife will have more or less quarrels, But it is wrong to move, knowing how to control your hands and mouth are all wisdom", "Double hands and words are used to protect your family, not to harm them", "Whoever moves first will be wrong, both men and women will be the same!"

Some netizens also discussed in depth: "Zero tolerance for violence, but, after the incident happens, what is the next step? After drying your eyes, how can you cure yourself from your heart? ", "Only both sides know the best about the fight between husband and wife. The move is definitely not right, but sometimes verbal attacks and mental persecution are also sexual violence that needs to be valued!" Before the conflict, calm down in three ways! Experts said, "The purpose of a quarrel is not a quarrel itself, but to understand the problem." Many times, we quarrel for the end, and ignore the purpose of a quarrel to solve the problem. This is also a common situation in life where the more quarrel the worse the relationship is.

When a conflict is about to occur, try to calm down in these three ways:

1. Close your eyes and turn left and right for 20 times.

2. Count down for 30 seconds, take 20 deep breaths.

3. Leave the scene of the conflict, come back calmly.

Experts remind that "returning the focus to the problem itself will be more able to solve the problem!" Usually quarrels will always be filled with emotions, and emotions are not a bad or wrong. Each emotion has its meaning, which is a subject that everyone must learn.