A 40-year-old girl meets a man under the age of 27! The secret to maintaining marriage at age 13 is "opening out"

In this era of free love, regardless of nationality, family background, and age, the only condition for marriage seems to be that two people love each other. There is a couple in Japan who are 13 years old. They have experienced confusion, jealousy, and outings about the relationship... In the end, they still chose to continue, making people want to hear their stories.

The beginning of the story of a 13-year-old love story

According to Japanese media reports, Kousei (27) and Mariko (40) met at a vegetarian coffee shop in Aichi County in 2019. At that time, both of them were very interested in the topic of healthy eating and yoga. The two just started out as friends, and Mariko was still in the marriage relationship with her ex-husband.

Mariko's ex-husband has been working outside for a long time and she has been working alone to support her two children. When the epidemic broke out in 2020, the child did not go to school for a month, and the ex-husband did not contact her for three months. Mariko realized that a family could not continue like this, so she proposed divorce in the summer of 2020. The other party was unwilling to do so at first, and finally, although she agreed to divorce, the condition was not to bear the child's care expenses.

After divorce, she was reported to be "received welfare"

Mariko became a single mother. Kousei often came to her house to play with her children later. The relationship between the two gradually became warmer. Unexpectedly, she was reported to "bug" by divorce.

It turns out that Japanese single family can apply for welfare funds, including child care allowance. Once a government member came to submit documents, Mariko went out and Kousei took care of the children at home. As a result, the other party mistakenly thought Mariko was "receiving welfare funds."

If the government determines that he is seeking benefits by fraud, he will not only lose his qualifications, but also pay back the previous fees. Therefore, Mariko must choose not to let Kousei come to her house, or the two will register for marriage directly.

Two months later, they got married. Mariko was 37 years old and Kousei was 24 years old. Looking back, they didn't have any plans to get married during that time, and the two did not even formally confess to each other. If it weren't for the pressure of administration, they might have dated naturally.

The love problem caused by the age gap is solved by "release the car" by "opening the car"

is 13 years older than the other half, and this love affair has caused Mariko to face some psychological difficulties. For example, when I opened the social media, I saw young and beautiful girls, and I thought to myself, "I'm divorced and have children. If my boyfriend likes others, I won't be able to compete with them." She began to be jealous of all the female friends he met on Instagram. Not only did she get anxious, but Kousei also put a lot of pressure on her.

For Kousei, he had almost no married friends in his class, no one could complain, and he seemed to have lost some kind of "value as a man", so he started to have sex with many girls.

{twenty one} {twenty two}

The couple can't fall asleep on the problem between the two. After a week of Shen Yan discussing, they concluded that "when people are restricted or restricted, they often do things that they don't really desire or want." Kousei is not just having an affair with one girl, but with many different girls. Therefore, he does not like others or does not want to be with Mariko, but wants to prove his value through his behavior.

After the incident, Mariko decided not to restrict the other party, and even told him that he would go out if he wanted to go out. There was only one condition that he had to inform in advance. She also tried to focus on herself to avoid excessive dependence on her partner. The person was always in a "open relationship". It was also after they opened their hearts and communicated that the two resolved the misunderstanding. Kousei no longer looked at himself as a way to improve himself. Mariko's strong jealousy and control also disappeared. In 2024, they also welcomed the two's first child.

Whether it will continue to be together, we must treat each other honestly

to maintain a marriage smoothly, the key to the two people think it is "integrity and trust". The more heavy or difficult things are, even if they disagree or quarrel, the more they have to say it. If they keep silent, the gap between them will only grow bigger and bigger. After confessing, she may face the situation of "still not be able to do it", but it is also the opportunity to end the relationship. Mariko's last marriage was because both parties could not communicate effectively, which made her feel that even if the economic situation was stable, she would be unhappy.

It sometimes takes courage to speak, but only by believing that things will eventually develop in a positive direction can the relationship continue to move forward.