A monthly salary of 60,000 yuan to her father and 40,000 boyfriend "married without money". A 30-year-old girl asked: Should I wait for 5 years?

After dating for a long time, I often want to get closer and get closer, enter the next stage of relationship, or live together or consider getting married or having children. On the contrary, if it is suspended at the same stage and has no goals, it often makes people feel uneasy and the future is not clear.

A female netizen was encountering this kind of connection. She has been dating her boyfriend for 6 years and her boyfriend has a monthly salary of 60,000 yuan, but she has to pay her father and mother 40,000 yuan a month. Both of them have AA systems. The woman is about to enter the 30th relationship and wants to get married and have her own family. Her boyfriend said that he has no money at the moment and hopes that the woman will "wait for him for another five years" to save money to get married. A female netizen posted a message on the face fan page of her wife in Beibei, "Do I choose to trust him?"

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Netizens' video scores, "Break up early and stop slack at any time", "Don't waste your youth anymore in this kind of baby, there is no plan to come, what are you looking forward to?", "Children and raising children are also AA in the future. When you are in confinement, think it through, "Don't spend the best time on impossible people", "It's a pity to eat, so I won't marry you, give up."

Some people think that a boy's life is just an excuse, "If you really want to marry you, you will ask you to wait", "Break up, maybe less than half a year after the breakup, he will send you a wedding invitation", "I will collect 60,000 yuan to my father and mother for 40,000 yuan a month, and he said he has no money to get married. I believe this, but I should not wait any longer. He will still get married in 5 years", "He can be the godfather of the child in five years", "This kind of 50 years will be the same."

Some people suggest that there should be common understanding when getting married, "It is real to find a partner who will submit to date before getting married."